Jose’s family and the Ranch

Thursday 31 October 2013
Off to enjoy a traditional Dias de los Muertos or Day of the Dead with Jose’s family on their family ranch in Cuicatlan.  The back seat of our car was filled with flowers Alma had asked us to bring for her mother.  Different varieties of lilies, chrysanthemums.  Two and a half hours outside of Puebla.  Luckily Alma showed us how to get out of town or we would have wasted an hour getting lost in Puebla. Once we were on the road it was smooth sailing all the way to the ranch.  Absolutely beautiful scenery.  I don’t think it’s so well known area to tourists which is a shame because it was stunning. 

We got to the ranch with no problems and about 2 minutes later, Jose’s parents, Lolita and Jose arrived.  What good timing. They took us to a nearby restaurant for some genuine Mexican food.  Yum.  Trevor had some chicken with black mole.  It’s made with a  specific chilies and chocolate.  Absolutely delicious.  I had a stew meatballs and potatoes.  The ladies who were serving were concerned it might be too spicy for me.  The gringo.  But I said “I can handle the spice” then I said, “well, I say that now…” Actually it was fine.  Not very spicy, just nice.  Had some mezcal.  Jose said it wasn’t very good quality mezcal but I liked it. Then back to the ranch for a swim.

Met Jose’s grandmother, the matriarch of the family and I helped her (I think) work with the marigolds which is the main flower they use for the altars and for the graves.  They call them “Flowers of the Dead”.  They had an awful lot.  Big job.

In the evening Lolita took us into town.  It was Friday night and “Day of the Dead Eve” so the little town was pumping.  Everyone out on the streets and the kids milling about.  Some of the little kids were dressed up in Halloween costumes and doing trick or treat.  Although Halloween is fun for the kiddies, Mexican generally disapprove of this encroachment on their ritual.  Day of the Dead is really a religious holiday and the commercialism and Americanism of Halloween is really alien to what it is.  They’re a bit concerned they may loose their tradition which pre-dates the Spanish invasion.

The little kids asked for candy but we didn’t have any.  Then they said something to Lolita, about us.  She said “they called you …” we said “whiteys” and she laughed.  Something like gringo. Saw Jose’s grandmother’s boutique hotel in town.  A really charming little hotel.  She needs to get onto the internet so people know about it. 



One thing we really hated was the mosquitoes.  Diablos.  They are really, really tiny.  We never, ever saw one.  But we sure felt them.  We got eaten alive.  They little sneaky bastards get on your skin, gorge themselves and leave you bleeding.  They have a preference for the back of your elbows.  Bastards. There were 22 bites on me, but Trevor pipped me at the post with 30 bites.  They’re really, really itchy.  Bastards.